Hello!
My name is Violett and I introduce myself as the co-founder of this wonderful platform dedicated to free gender expression, unconditional help for anyone who wants to explore their femininity or needs help.
Despite my young age, I have been able to experience and live my growth as a crossdresser girl from a very young age, with virtually no support from anyone. This has meant that I have had to overcome complex and emotionally difficult barriers in my life.
However, I was very lucky to be able to discover myself in this world thanks to my former partner, thanks to her support, her love, understanding and patience. I had a time when I was able to enjoy my feminine gender expression with her, living unforgettable moments, as well as sharing my life with this wonderful person.
After much reflection, I still firmly believe that crossdressing strengthened our ties, creating a special and unique bond between us, not only as a couple, but also as a friendship between best friends in which we shared many tastes, feelings, clothes, make-up and heels, etc.
Throughout my journey, I gradually discovered what femininity means and how to achieve it, working on a daily basis, overcoming fears and daily challenges, but above all family problems derived from social prejudices.
Being able to start from a very young age knowing that the path was totally unknown and solitary, to the current discovery that I have of myself, has allowed me to enjoy all the advantages that this entails, as well as to progressively work on minimising all the social barriers that one is exposed to when showing oneself to the world.
Obviously it has not been easy, but in life nothing is easy, especially when it comes to expressing to the world a duality that is still frowned upon by the majority of society, misunderstood by friends, family, people you respect and love, but which unfortunately and despite the broad LGTBIQ+ movement and its struggle for gender normalisation and free expression is still not enough.
Over time, with confidence, a lot of emotional work and a long way to go, I have managed to step forward to embrace, whenever I can, my freedom and the right to express myself to the world as I am.
This freedom entails a number of risks, it entails deliberately facing intrinsic fears in each of us when it comes to telling our loved ones, friends or partners about our personal situation, which we lived and experienced from a very young age, but above all about who we really are as well.
The idea of creating a platform for free expression to help anyone who needs it, providing truthful, simple and reliable information, was something that had been in our heads for some time, but we did not have the means or enough time to materialise it.
After some time with the project on hold for personal reasons, we are once again focusing on improving the content of the platform, as well as unleashing many other innovative ideas, initiatives and needs that we firmly believe can be differentiating, and can add value.
It is therefore that the platform in general arises from an intrinsic need to raise our voices and say who we are, what hidden life we lead and the desire to take a step forward to normalise it, because in reality, we do not harm anyone, nor do we have to change within ourselves just because we express ourselves to the world in a different way, in freedom and as another human being.
Having grown up, studied and developed in a big city like Madrid, I have had to take a step forward many times with courage, bravery and courage, to overcome many situations that today seem simple to me, but that, throughout my time as a crossdresser, I have realised that most of the time, and especially when you are just starting to discover yourself, it takes a lot of effort and courage to overcome them.
I still have a long list of situations to face, some of them unjust, of rejection, of repression... but I firmly believe that in community and as we can claim more normalisation, we will be able to move towards a happier and freer life.
Not all the people I have been able to talk to and meet have decided to take this path, mostly due to lack of answers or constant fear that society might judge them and hurt them, that their friends and family might reject them or simply because they do not have the necessary means and knowledge to develop their feminisation correctly and thus see themselves with better self-esteem to take the step to go out on the street dressed, or to go on a date, or socialise, go shopping etc.
Everything that holds you back is in the end a materialisation of fear, and fear only leads to you not being able to enjoy who you also are, not being able to be at peace with yourself.
I have always said that fear is the shadow that prevents us from discovering the light of our true essence, and that must change in order for us to have mental stability and to enjoy our life in the best possible way.
In short, thank you very much to everyone and welcome, remember: that fear of the unknown can be a prison that prevents us from flying towards the fullness of who we also are.