Hello!

My name is Violeta and I introduce myself as co-founder of this wonderful platform dedicated to free gender expression, unconditional help for anyone who wants to explore their femininity or needs help to know how to address it.

 

Spain-Crossdress

Despite my young age, I have been able to experience and live my growth as a crossdressing from a very young age without the support of my family, and without the help of practically anyone. This has meant that I have had to overcome very complex and emotionally difficult barriers in my life.
However, I have been very lucky to be able to discover myself in this world thanks to my current partner, with whom I have been with for more than 10 years and thanks to his love, support, understanding and patience, we have managed to enjoy my dual gender identity in a healthy way, minimising the social prejudices with which our families have inevitably raised us.

Together we have been discovering what femininity means and how to achieve it, working day by day, overcoming fears and daily challenges and family problems derived from social prejudices.

After more than 10 years, we have come to the conclusion that crossdressing has strengthened our relationship, creating a special and unique bond between us, not only as a couple, but also as a friendship between best friends in which we share many tastes, feelings, clothes, make-up and heels.

Being able to start from a very young age knowing that the path was totally unknown and solitary, arriving at the current discovery that we have of ourselves as a couple and as friends, has allowed us to enjoy all the advantages that come with sharing it.

Obviously, it has not been easy, but in life nothing is easy, especially when it comes to expressing to the world a male-female duality that is still not well regarded by most of society, despite the broad LGTBIQ+ movement and its struggle for gender normalisation and free sexual expression.
With the passage of time, communication and trust, we have come to accept each other as a couple and as people, understanding that, although sometimes I feel like a girl and sometimes like a man, we must step forward to embrace our freedom and express ourselves to the world as we are.

This freedom entails a series of risks, it entails deliberately facing intrinsic fears in each one of us when telling our loved ones, friends or partner about our personal situation that we have lived and experienced since we were very young, but above all about who we really are.

The idea of creating a platform for free expression to help anyone who needs it, providing truthful, simple and reliable information, was something that we had been thinking about for some time, but we didn't have the means or the time to make it happen.

That is why the platform in general arises from an imperative need to raise our voices and say who we are, what hidden life we lead and the desire to take a step forward to normalise it, because in reality, we do not harm anyone, nor do we have to change inside just to express ourselves to the world in a different way, in freedom.

Having grown up, studied and developed in a big city like Madrid, I have often had to step forward with courage, courage and bravery, to overcome many situations that today seem simple to me, but which, throughout my time as crossdressing, I have realised that most of the time, and especially when one is just starting to discover oneself, it takes a lot of effort and courage to overcome them.

Not all the people I have been able to talk to and meet have decided to take this path, most of the time due to lack of answers or the constant fear of being judged and hurt by society, of being rejected by their friends and family or simply because they do not have the means and knowledge to develop their feminisation correctly and thus see themselves with better self-esteem to, for example, take the step of going out dressed, or going on a date, or going shopping or going out for dinner, etc.

Everything that holds you back is in the end a materialisation of fear, and fear only leads you to not being able to enjoy who you are, to not being able to be at peace with yourself.

I have always said that fear is the shadow that prevents us from discovering the light of our true essence, and that must change in order for us to have mental stability and to enjoy our lives in the best possible way.

Anyway, thank you all very much and welcome, remember that fear of the unknown can be a prison that prevents us from flying towards the fullness of who we also are.

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